翔跟我说他朋友说我们有夫妻相。
哈哈!对啊~ 我觉得我们的
pattern 很像!

他朋友问他我是不是他的妹妹。
哈哈!会不会太夸张了啊!哎哟!

我朋友看了我们的照片也觉得我们看起来不像真人,
因为我们很
cartoon/anime looking. 哈哈哈!

我跟他说,当我看到他送给我的生日卡时,
内容读得我感动得流泪了,我真的是一个爱哭鬼!

我问他,“如果我流泪,你会被
affected 啊?那昨晚你是不是在忍?”
他说,“当然啦。第一次见到人家因为我感动流泪。"

因为这一切都是我们的第一次啊。

他第一次为了一个人做这么多,帮女友庆祝生日。
我也是第一次感受到一个人为我做这么多。当然感受得到啊~

Yes Dearie, I feel your sincerity & love...

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Friday, was intending to look for furniture, particularly cupboard/wardrobe.

I do not have one in my own bedroom and I find it extra troublesome when I reach home late and I gotta creep into my parents room to get my clothes and bath in their bathroom.

It's been a while since I'd been to Ikea. And it was nice to go with my boyfriend!

There was an occasion when I saw the blink blink from the bus and I thought the bus was leaving... and I said, "你看那个‘亮亮亮’."
He turned to me gave me the 要小不要笑的表情 and repeated, " 亮亮亮啊?"
I'm like, "对啦,不然?".
Then he told me off, "闪闪闪啦!哪里有亮亮亮的!"

EH YA HOR!! Sheesh.... my Chinese deprove liao!

We alighted at the stop in front of Alexandra Hospital and walked to Queensway Shopping Centre and looked around.

和他手牵着手逛家具店,有像新婚夫妇的感觉。
我是要看衣柜,衣橱啦。不过,走着走着,
经过沙发,客厅设计,卧房,床,哇!不得了!


I saw a cupboard which was quite suitable. The size & height, never mind if it doesn't have mirror, I can always go buy a full length mirror or something. But the cupboard is in blue. Very off colour for me leh. And it will look totally alien in my room. Hmm.. price was not bad too! Below $170. But... the colour, hmmm... Maybe I should look around more.

Nothing much at IKEA to look about liao. Move on to IMM and look at the furniture ba. Took some pics & video along the way while standing so that is the standing height of us!

Waited for 197 opposite Queensway and head towards Jurong East. Fell asleep along the way. Very squeezy with ppl knocking off from work.

So we walked over to IMM and wanna see if there was suitable wardrobe around at furniture shop but it was mostly interior and mostly designer style so confirm out of my budget. Arrrghhh. Then how??

W sat down and had a little rest at the seating area. Whipped out my camera and started snapping bo liao pics again!

Saw this HK eating place outside Daiso like not bad leh. Probably can try it. I had za jiang mian while Dearie had some baked rice. We had also ordered a 3 pc chicken wings set. I had one, he had one, I wanted to share the 3rd pc but he didn't want, saying it's fat. So I didn't want to waste the food and I had 2, 我还真的是吃得好勉强.

So off we go after dinner and I'd decided to walk home since there was time and I really had a fatty dinner. Along the way, we sat down at the road junction of Jurong East St 24 & Jalan Boon Lay way. It was nice to see the traffice & night view of Jurong. I'd never sat there before. It feels relaxing to watch the cars & ppl going by. We were just walking down down down towards Chinese Garden MRT.

Then walked toward 7-11 and bought drinks & sat outside the renovation shops. While drinking, bo liao and did leg lifts when Dearie's legs! hehe!! So nothing much, we just hanged at the park nearby my house at the fitness corner until it was time for him to go.

Went home and chatted with Dearie again. I sent him a super funny Youtube link and I said, "If you don't laugh, I'll change my surname to yours."

Me, Shan, WM always like to use this line to show that a particular thing is going to be dead, extremely, f***ingly funny.

So I said this line to Dearie too... and his immediately response is..."Then I don't laugh lor."
我问他,“你很希望我跟你姓啊?”
他说,“嗯。。。如果我跟你说我很常希望的话,会不会很神经啊?”

我看得有点呆了,不太敢相信他说的。
后来他说,“我想不可能这么快吧."

其实你这么想,我就已经很开很开心了。
以后的事情大家都不知道,可是此时此刻,

我真的真的好希望能和你永远在一起
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

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Saturday, woke up early and submitted a project. 

After that I head over to Woodlands to Dearie's place. I was half dead when I reached his place and practically laid down like a dead log on his king size water bed and nuah. Haha!! He actually just woke up not long ago, moments ago before I reached. So we were nuahing together. Then woke up, time for dinner too!

After dinner, I was eyeing on the packet of Lays chips on his table. Hehe! Since I had my laptop with me, I watched Russel Peter Show & Taiwan Varities with him.. It was really fun snuggling close and having chips and watching TV together! Hehe....

很忽然的,他对我说,“我爱你。” 

我实在是太开心了。

‘沙朗黑哟’也只对他说而已。


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Sunday, alarm went off at 545 cos I planned to take the first train home after staying over at Dearie's place. 

But I was really unable to get up and continued sleeping. Only intend to sleep for a while more then wake up, but I slept so soundly until Zach nudged me that my handphone vibrated.

Sheesh!! It was my dad! I looked at the time, it was 8am. Kaoz... dai ji dua diao liao.

不难猜到我被父母教训了一顿。

真糟糕,怎么会起不来呢!如果在他们起床前到家就没事了。

翔陪我一起等
187回家。
一路上我一直在想要怎么想老爸说。
我其实不想多说什么,越解释,说越多,

到头来对他来说也不过是顶嘴,掩饰,借口。
但是如果不说,又好像是我存心隐瞒似的。

翔传我简讯,说他很抱歉。
可是他都没有错,怎么可能会怪他呢?

到家了,每个人都在房间做自己的东西。

无论如何我都会要见到父母,因为浴室在他们房里。

为了自己想要的,一定要面对。
我发了简讯给翔,希望它可以给我鼓励还有勇气。
他也给了我爱的鼓励!希望有用~

我进去了父母的房间。
两个人都在。老爸看报纸,老妈缝衣服。

我一进去老爸就质问我东南西北。


Apparently, 老爸认为我是在玩玩的。
如果是玩玩的,我干麻要跟父母提到我谈恋爱,交男友的事情?

老爸还说我们两个都还是学生,一点基础都没有。

神经病啊!在一起需要什么基础?
那那些情侣在外面难道都需要基础才能在一起啊?
学生谈恋爱会影响学业,
难道那些工作认识谈恋爱就不会影响工作吗?

为什么老爸会有这么多莫名其妙的想法的?
一直说我很随便,什么“哪里有人随随便便到男生家过夜的?”
那个人又不是随便认识的陌生人!是我的男朋友耶!

我跟他说我也有朋友到他们朋友家过夜打麻将,
ps, xbox, chalet, bbq

他却说,“我不管其他人怎么样,可是我不允许我的女儿 blablabla..."

我没有顶撞老爸的意思。
我的态度很平静,只是就事论事。
我也没有说太多,因为都是他在说话。
他们理想的孩子,就是静静地听他们的话。

我真得不喜欢说谎,撒谎,骗人。更何况是我的父母?
我连要说真心话都不可以。为什么这样?

为什么只能说别人爱听的话?
为什么只能做他们觉得是对的东西?
为什么没有商量的余地?为什么不可以达成协议?
为什么只能听片面致词?为什么不听我的感想?

还说什么我是学生,
我的现在的目标就是把学业搞好, 谈恋爱的事情以后再说。

什么叫‘谈恋爱以后再说'?
哇!我的条件有那么好吗?好到以后随时要交就交得到?

以后等我要叫男朋友的时候,有对象给我交吗?
什么叫,‘女生不可以随便主动找男生的。’
我又不是什么美女辣妹,男生会来找我吗?
我没有钱,什么都不会,会有异性欣赏吗?
等男生来
approach 我,一百年,这辈子,下辈子都不可能会发生。

在读中学的时候,他们老是说我的朋友不三不四。
是我交朋友还是他们交朋友?是不是不交朋友他们比较开心?
是不是我整天呆在家里面对着他们,听他们讲话他们很开心?

当然, 我在父母面前没有把这些想法说出来,
只是静静站在那里任由他们批评,指责,教训。

老妈也终于说话了,还说什么,“人家养女儿,我也养女儿。养女儿这么辛苦,倒不如不要养。”

我的天啊!拿刀杀了我吧!我又没有杀人放火!!!
为什么说到好像我犯了滔天大罪似的!!!

我告诉老爸,我难得遇到一个我喜欢的也喜欢我的。
他却说,“你怎么知道他对你是真心的?”
我说,“他对我怎样我知道的嘛。”
他竟然说,“这种事情怎么可能知道的?”

他还继续说,“拍拖需要每天见面的
meh?一个礼拜一次不可以啊?”
我说,“他现在有很多时间因为10月才开课,所以我没有上课的时候就会去找他。”
他却说,“那需要每次在外面到这么晚吗?不可以早点回来啊?”

我说,“每一次跟他见面,就会想花朵一点时间在一起。"
他竟然说,“哪里有这种事的?”

哇劳!!!! 什么叫哪里有这种事的?
我要疯掉了啦!
ARGHHHHHHHH!!!!

But I just nod & nod, saying yes I know, yes I understand. Went to bath, had lunch and sleep then woke up and had dinner. 

Went online waiting for Dearie who was in Orchard buying Dan's present. So I told Dearie about my conversation with my dad...

我跟翔说了我和我老爸的谈话。
他说,要过我父母的那关将会使超级无敌难!
我也有同感!

怎么好像韩剧的?????
有没有搞错啊!我又不是在拍戏!
我不知道为什么我父母会这么在意这件事。

翔说他很担心,他说就算我很爱他,
可是如果我的父母不能接受他,他会放开我。。。

我不要不要不要不要~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
请你不要放开我~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

我会努力的,我会努力争取的~~~~~~请你要相信我!